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What Happened?
In a devastating case unfolding in Avignon, France, 72-year-old Gisèle Pelicot has bravely come forward to share her story of unimaginable abuse. Over nearly a decade, Gisèle’s former husband secretly drugged her, facilitating sexual assaults by over 50 men while she was unconscious.
Her former husband was arrested in 2020, and authorities uncovered thousands of disturbing images and videos documenting these crimes. This case has horrified and mobilized communities around the world, spotlighting the dangers of gender-based violence and the traumatic realities that many survivors face when seeking justice.
Photo: Christophe Simon
Photo: Christophe Simon
Gisèle Taking Back Her Power
Since the trial began, Gisèle Pelicot has made the powerful decision not only to waive her anonymity but also to allow the videos of her abuse to be shown in court. In doing so, she has exposed the full extent of the crimes committed against her, holding her former husband and the other men involved accountable.
The right to anonymity in sexual assault cases was a hard-won battle, offering survivors critical protection and giving them the choice to reveal their identities or not. While Gisèle’s decision to waive anonymity is a testament to her bravery, every survivor—whether they choose to be publicly known or remain anonymous—demonstrates profound courage in seeking justice.
This courageous choice also highlights the systemic challenges survivors face in court, where defence tactics often aim to discredit victims. Gisèle’s stance has inspired public support worldwide, with many calling for stronger protections for survivors navigating these retraumatizing processes.
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Honouring Gisèle’s Resilience and Advocacy
At BWSS, we honour Gisèle Pelicot’s extraordinary bravery in sharing her story publicly. Her courage underscores the importance of a survivor-centred approach to justice and the need for judicial reforms that protect survivors from retraumatization. Gisèle’s voice stands as a testament to the resilience of victim-survivors of gender-based violence and highlights the urgent need for change so that survivors are heard, believed, and supported within the legal system.
@metrouk 'It's not for us to have shame, it's for them.' Those are the words of Gisèle Pelicot as she takes the stand in the trial of her ex-husband and 50 other men accused of r***** her. Gisèle requested an open trial, saying she wants all women to say if 'Madame Pelicot did it, I can too. I don't want them to be ashamed any longer.' #fy #fyp #giselepelicot #france #francenews #news #newsupdate #womensrights #womenssafety #court #trial #worldnews ♬ original sound - MetroUK
Standing in Solidarity with Gisèle and All Victim-Survivors
Gisèle’s story serves as a stark reminder of why we must continue to take action for a world free of gender-based violence. Her bravery calls on us to advocate for systems that prioritize survivor safety and dignity. At BWSS, we stand in solidarity with Gisèle Pelicot and all victim-survivors. Her journey strengthens our resolve to demand change and justice and to build a future where survivors are met with compassion, not disbelief. Let us honour her courage by amplifying her story and committing to systemic change.
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"I want all women who have been raped to say: Madame Pelicot did it, I can too. I don't want them to be ashamed any longer."
— Dr. Ann Olivarius (@AnnOlivarius) October 23, 2024
That shame was never hers to carry.
Gisele Pelicot is so right and so brave to refuse it and to demand that it changes side. https://t.co/cRRxkLoMHl
she doesn’t need a nobel prize, she needs the law and everyone in charge of any kind of power -e.g. the media - to start taking rape and rape victims seriously and to start condemning rapists instead of upholding them.. ‘shame must change sides’ yes that’s the whole point of it https://t.co/ukJNlgkiTj
— julie (@helencftroy) October 24, 2024
With a group of girlfriends tonight, we all finally felt it: "Shame must change sides."
— Sarah McGrath (@SarahMc_G) September 26, 2024
We've been saying it for years, as sector leaders. But tonight, we really truly deeply felt it.
Thank you, Gisèle Pélicot.
We will not wear men's shame anymore.
If you want to know what courage is,all you have to do is to look at Gisele Pelicot.
— Natasha Ramarathnam (@nuts2406) October 24, 2024
She is single handedly changing the narrative around rape. She is inspiring thousands of women across the world to hold their head high because “shame must change sides”.pic.twitter.com/6GGnpIkt5b
If we want shame to change sides in rape and sexual assault, WE as men need to get fully engaged in it.
— Bernie 💙 Author | Speaker (@_WhatMakesAMan_) October 27, 2024
How?
Firstly stop saying Not All Men and secondly the Continuum of Harm helps us to create better cultures of manhood.
New blog.
TW⚠️ #pelicot https://t.co/S5e7wdFDPt
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